It makes me feel quite negative towards them when I really don't want to feel like that.Many people get confused about what being separated from your romantic partner means. It annoys me as he's so nice and so kind to his daughters and sees them all the time but he can't say what he is doing or what makes him happy if I am part of that equation. But I do think that a grown man separated from his wife for this amount of time should be able to say "I am seeing X at the weekend". Just to be clear, this isn't about meeting his children. Interestingly it's all the women who seem to umbridge. We met through mutual friends, mine and his who know his wife - won't see us together either.
His daughters in their twenties do not want to know anything about me including my name, and have asked him not to refer any aspect of this part of his life. But.any friends that are mutual to him and his wife literally don't want to hear my name. His close friends are really nice, mine like him. He is in the process of a divorce and has been separated 3 years.